did i tell you that on last thursday afternoon my brother & my mom actually fought about our family car? ya, they did,like i said in the previous post,my whole family is having conflict right now with his fiancee family even though his fiancee don't show any signs that both parties won't be happy even when the day of the the marriage comes. as lots of things happened,the conflict gets bigger day by day. well like mazlan said,to get both parties to sit & discuss,is not an easy task when it comes to my family, it maybe an easy task,but when both parties see face to face,i know & i can tell what my parents want them to do,which is definitely break off the engagement, but well my parents can't say that cause they know my brother would get worked up & would just walk off from the house & stay with his fiancee's house with her family. as he just won't listen to any of our family members but his fiancee & familywhy both parties can't sit down & discuss? instead of behaving this way...it is because of these following reasons (from my family side):-no one actually like my brother's fiancee even though she is nice to everyone-everyone prefers my brother's previous girlfriend (but my mom don't agree about the engagement)-my brother spend to0 much of his time & MONEY,on his fiancee & her family-he spend his holidays & off, there-at times for few days he would not come home & he'll be staying at his fiancee house (everyone knows that)-he actually gives his fiancee $200+,per month ( for God sake,she's also working abang!, & your NOT HER HUSBAND YET!!)-for God sake,abang!, you don't need to take care of her and family-for God sake,abang! don't you realised she's like using you (well, to us)-for God sake,abang!,you actually buy her the stuffs she wants,& YOU THINK YOU'RE DAMN RICH?!!
-& guess what people? his fiancee family,actually asked my brother to buy their house!!!, HELLOO!!! WHAT DO YOU THINK YOU ARE? & ABNG YOU MAKE YOU DON'T BUY THAT
FREAKING HOUSE!-& oh ya,her family is seriously out of control,her mom & dad had divorce for some time, & her mom is getting married,& she actually asked my brother for money, EHK HELLO!! ASK YOUR OWN DAUGHTER LAH!!,ASKED MY BROTHER FOR WHAT?-& her whole family said,my brother is a god man,blah blah blah, YA DAMN RIGHT, MY BROTHER IS A GOOD MAN BECAUSE HE SPENDS ALL HIS TIME & MONEY ON YOU! DUH!!-& her family spend a lot during the engagement day,& its like that day was their wedding day, with all the pretty dresses & camera man,& all the pots outside her house. YOUR ENGAGEMENT DAY NOT YOUR WEDDING DAY!!!-during the engagement day,my parents didn't want to go so my grandma,uncle etc & i go on behalf of my parents,& while we were there, her family actually talked behind our back about how my grandma was dressed, was like so simple & the baju kurung was too cheap,& things we gave were like also too simple & cheap,i don't know all that not until my cousin told me,& i tell you,that very minutes i feel like throwing the ring for my brother that was given from her family,i don't care what they say about the hantarans we gave but what they say about my grandma was too much & lucky my cousin was wearing her school uniform,so we just show the hate we have in them. they were also saying that,shouldn't my cousin wear a proper clothes on that day & said that my cousin have a bad attitude. EHK HELLO,WHO IS THE BAD PEOPLE RIGHT NOW.i pretend i was happy when i see his fiancee,after that i dont smile looking at all her family members.-& my parents won't even share any things even the family car with them. its not my parents fault they doing this but my brother & her fiancee fault.-even the engagement date & day,was already set by his fiancee & my parents know nothing about it,not until my brother gave us a shocked,he gave my parents the ring & asked to go to his fiancee house that very minute. of course at first i heck care bout my brothers problems but now i really can't.-the foods during the engagement day at my house was not ordered & paid by my mom but my grandma,uncles & aunts,& my brother actually not grateful for that. if not my mom would just cook simple dishes & thats it.what they had done? (the things his fiancee did):-asked my brother to buy new washing machine etc,until my brother starts getting himself in debt.
-get engage quickly (engage already) & also get married quickly
-he actually paid some of the things for the engagement on his fiancee side.
-there's more but just but too long to be listed out..ya i know i can say all these in my blog but not to my brother yet. not the time yet when actually the time is always there. but i need his off days & the time he go out with his fiancee so that his fiancee knows everything even it means i have to hurt her as if not don't even dare to dream that both parties would be happy after the marriage as even my parents don't welcome his fiancee & family to our house except for hari raya,but hari raya only his fiancee came to pay a visit but not her family,& thats good not seeing her family at my house.To Abang,
FOR GOD SAKE!! PLEASE WAKE UP!!!
i don't want to talk about this while i have some time to
spend with you cause i know, you would say
that i'm just a freaking 16 year old teenage girl,
who knows nothing bout all these, should not
interfere. then think again abang,wake up,
IF I A 16 YEAR OLD TEENAGE GIRL,
CAN SEE ALL THESE & USE MY BRAIN TO THINK,
WHY CAN'T YOU, A 27 YEAR OLD MAN!!!
please lah wake up,i begging you.
for your info, everyone include grandma,
HOPING THAT YOU & KAK SITI WOULD BREAK UP
& THEY PRAY TO ALLAH,FOR SOMEONE NEW,
WHICH IS BETTER THAN KAK SITI
